You went in. You came out with a prescription. You still don't have an answer.
STOP taking the first thing you're handed as the end of the conversation. Steal these 3 systems we run here instead.
1. Whole story first system.
2. Ask why twice system.
Think of the brown ring on the ceiling back in your first apartment, somebody came out and painted over it and it looked fine for about 3 months and then it came back in the same spot, wider, and everybody kept saying it's an old building… why
Because it's rarely about the stain and more so about the pipe nobody went upstairs to look at.
3. Your call system.
Every woman you know who came away with an answer got it the same way. Somebody sat down and looked at the whole picture with her, and then left the decision with her.
#askmorequestions #wildandwise
Three systems for the next appointment, and every one of them is about who says what first.
For the woman who has been handed a prescription and sent home with no answer.
Education and curiosity come first here, before anything gets suggested. And the order is the whole method.
The carousel has them in order, one slide at a time.
Save it for the next appointment. Send it to the woman going to hers this week.
What would change if somebody looked at your whole story first?
#wildandwise #womenlikeus #wholestoryfirst #askmorequestions #midlifeenergy
You went in. You came out with a prescription. You still don't have an answer.
Every woman you know who came away with an answer got it the same way.
Somebody sat down and looked at the whole picture with her, and then left the decision with her.
If you're dealing with exhaustion and brain fog, not feeling like herself, and frustration with pharmaceuticals as the only offered option, you are not imagining it.
Book a free call.
If you're dealing with feeling dismissed by conventional medicine, you are not imagining it.
Ready when you are. Book a free call.
Reclaim. Exhaustion and brain fog is real, and it's not something you're imagining.
Reclaim. Book a free call.
Thrive. Not feeling like herself is real, and it's not something you're imagining.
Thrive. Book a free call.
Wild and wise. Exhaustion and brain fog is real, and it's not something you're imagining.
Wild and wise. Book a free call.
Patti's own observation, from years in sales, of women quietly accepting exhaustion and brain fog as "just part of getting older".
To reclaim energy, recovery, and confidence. Book a free call.
Successful women over 50. Why is a prescription the first conversation instead of the last resort?
QUIT letting somebody else decide what gets said first. Here are 3 systems worth stealing before anybody suggests anything.
1. Two weeks of notes system.
2. Nothing suggested yet system.
Think of somebody salting your plate at the table before you'd picked up a fork, they hadn't tasted it and they hadn't asked, the shaker was already in their hand because that's what they do at every meal with every plate in front of them… when
Because it's rarely about what ends up on the table and more so about when it got put there.
3. Everything on the table system.
The ones you'd send your sister to all do the same boring thing first. They listen for a while, and then they say what they think. In that order.
#wildandwise #womenlikeus
Somebody decides what gets said first in that room. Worth knowing who.
For the woman who keeps a list in her head and never gets asked for it.
Two weeks of notes, in her own handwriting, is where we start. So the order is what gets checked first, before anybody suggests anything.
The carousel walks that order, slide by slide.
Keep this where you can find it. Pass it to whoever has an appointment coming.
What would you want asked first, if somebody asked you?
#wildandwise #womenlikeus #twoweeksofnotes #whogoesfirst #askmorequestions
Why is a prescription the first conversation instead of the last resort?
Think of somebody salting your plate at the table before you'd picked up a fork.
The ones you'd send your sister to all do the same boring thing first.
They listen for a while, and then they say what they think. In that order.
To reclaim energy, recovery, and confidence. That's what this is actually about.
To feel like herself again. Book a free call.
To feel like herself again. That's what this is actually about.
Independence and a sense of possibility about aging. Book a free call.
Independence and a sense of possibility about aging. That's what this is actually about.
Book a free call.
To reclaim energy, recovery, and confidence.
Ready when you are. Book a free call.
Education and curiosity before medications or invasive procedures as the first conversation.
Women like us. Book a free call.
Product specifics appear only as supporting detail, never the headline.
Your body is designed to adapt. Book a free call.
Successful women over 50. If you're already braced for another wellness product pitch, you've never had this kind of conversation.
There's a set of "rules" about what happens when a woman in midlife finally asks somebody for help. You get pitched, and then maybe you get heard. The women doing this well go in the opposite order.
(You can put the armor down for this one.)
Look, nothing to book yet. Here are 3 things to take into any conversation:
• ask what they want to know about you before you ask what they sell (how long it's been going on, what you've already tried, what a good week looks like now)
• say the part you'd normally leave out, that you've been sent home before with nothing (then watch what they do with it)
• get a straight answer about what happens if none of it is a fit for you (a woman who's HAPPY to say not me will tell you the truth about everything else)
That's what actually works, and it sorts a conversation from a pitch right now 💛
Follow along for the parts of this nobody says out loud 🤍
And if you have questions, put them below, I read them. Or book the free call and bring all 3 with you…
You get pitched, and then maybe you get heard. The women doing this well go in the opposite order.
We don't open with a product here. We open with your story.
But the armor comes off only if you want it to. Either way there are three things worth taking into any conversation about your health, with us or with anybody else...
All three are in the carousel.
Save it. Send it to the woman who stopped asking.
What would you say if somebody asked what a good week looks like now?
#wildandwise #womenlikeus #putthearmordown #notasalesappointment #midlifeenergy
If you're already braced for another wellness product pitch, you've never had this kind of conversation.
You get pitched, and then maybe you get heard.
The women doing this well go in the opposite order.
Look, nothing to book yet.
Say the part you'd normally leave out, that you've been sent home before with nothing.
That's what actually works, and it sorts a conversation from a pitch right now.
Patti's own approach: empowering women with options, not selling a product.
Not your fault. Book a free call.
Education and curiosity before medications or invasive procedures as the first conversation. That's how we do things differently here.
You're not alone. Book a free call.
Book a free call. That's the only ask.
Independence and a sense of possibility about aging. Book a free call.
Reclaim. That's where this starts.
Book a free call.
Thrive. That's where this starts.
Ready when you are. Book a free call.
Wild and wise. That's where this starts.
Reclaim. Book a free call.
Successful women over 50. Why does every invitation feel like a sales appointment before anyone even says hello?
Everybody knows the "rules" by now. An invitation is a pitch wearing a nicer coat. The women who dropped that habit? They invite you and then they leave you alone.
(I spent most of my career in sales. I know exactly what I'm describing.)
You don't have to go anywhere near a yes for this. Watch what an invitation leaves out:
• notice what nobody asks you to buy in the first conversation (an honest one can go the whole way through without it)
• listen for the part where somebody says this might not be for you (it's the sentence a pitch can't afford to say)
• check whether anything expires (nothing about your own body needs an answer by FRIDAY)
That's what actually works, and it tells you who's inviting and who's closing right now 🌿
Follow along for the wild and wise version of all this 💛
The free call is a conversation about your story. That's the whole of it. Say hello below if that's easier, or come book one and tell me yours…
A pitch in a nicer coat is still a pitch. You can hear it before hello is finished.
I spent most of my career in sales. And I know what a close looks like from the inside.
So watch what an invitation leaves out. Nobody asking you to buy, somebody willing to say this might not be for you, and no date attached to a decision about your own body.
Three of them, one per slide, in the carousel.
Hold onto this one. Send it to whoever got invited to something this week.
Which of the three would your last invitation have failed?
#wildandwise #womenlikeus #thenicercoat #nothingexpires #womenwhorefuse
Why does every invitation feel like a sales appointment before anyone even says hello?
An invitation is a pitch wearing a nicer coat.
The women who dropped that habit? They invite you and then they leave you alone.
I spent most of my career in sales. I know exactly what I'm describing.
Listen for the part where somebody says this might not be for you.
Nothing about your own body needs an answer by FRIDAY.